Secrets Are Not Good for Any Relationship
Secrets have never been known to form a good foundation for any relationship. It is very common that after you have been dating a person for only a short while, you get a good idea of their lifestyle. It is not bad to remember though, that the person may actually hide some secrets he is not ready to share with you. Everything can be brought to the light if you feel that something is being unduly kept in the dark and you wonder what it is.
If you don’t know enough or much about your partner’s parents, there may be some reasons for this.First, he might want to avoid the topic in case you would like to meet his parents.Secondly, his relationship with the parents may be sour for reason he will not share with you yet.Whatever the reason is, you must establish where they come from and where they grew up so that you can continue with the relationship.
Do not be at peace if you don’t know his friends yet. Seek to know the friends he talks about meeting if he has never introduced you to them. He may be using it to get to something or someone he doesn’t want you to know about. He may try to do this since his friends may not approve of you or you may not approve of them.Whatever makes up for the reason if you would know the truth, you might need to use some force to see clearly.
Although you may know what work he does, he never talks about it.He may not be working or may be doing what he didn’t say he does.
If he doesn’t mention his exs’ name, be worried.There can be some reason why he doesn’t want to mention the names.The first reason may be that they are still in touch. Their past relationships may be something they loathe and don’t want to talk about them. Whatever the reason is, ensure that they are not hiding a dangerous thing.
Your new man may not be the angel he portends to be.Although rare, you may be lucky, and he can merely be ashamed of the lack of his etiquette and eloquence skills. A serious man in a relationship will hardly hide his home and will actually offer to take you to know his home. He will try all means for you to know his place.
Do not allow your newly found man to get away with keeping you in the dark and then taking advantage of you.